Are you newly divorced or separated? Have you decided to start looking for love? Lots of women think there is not any decent men who are over 40 and divorced it is up to you to prove to them this is not the case. No matter what age you are going on a date is exciting you go along with great expectations and perceptions about the possibilities of your date going well and finding your soul=mate
Going through the divorce process is very a drawing exhausting experience it can really knock you confidence.
When you split up it can feel as though your heart has been ripped out if your wife has cheated on you. If you are left in the house all by yourself the house will seem so big and quite. This will pass within time.
You are still young enough in your 40s to move on and find love once again. Life moves and so can you.
There is lots of good looking women out there and so why don’t you enjoy yourself and go out there and meet them.
Your wife might have criticised you, she might have put you down. Not all women are like this. You have lots of things people out there that people like about you feel proud of yourself and have fun looking for someone who is going to enjoy spending time with you.
Women know there are not so many decent single men in their 40s who are solvent and a good catch. If you have been in a relationship for a while a lot of single women will know you have staying power. Single women out there will want to invest their time and efforts in you.
Are you ready to start dating again it is possible you might need to get over your break up from your wife before you move on to your next relationship. If you do not sort yourself out mentally you will end up getting hurt again.
You want to end up with someone who is attractive to you and someone who is fun to be around. It is important you know what sort of person you want to be with and you go out and get her.
Make sure you are not old before your time. Possibly change your wardrobe and change your hair style. Your wife might not have found you attractive because you look old fashioned and you do not take care of yourself, women do notice and if a woman is a fussy about her looks she will be fussy about the type of man she has on her arm.
It is important to date a woman who shares similar interests to you, you need
someone who you can converse with and have fun with. It is important that you can chat to the date over the phone or via e-mail without it being too much of a strain and effort.
Do not get upset if your dating efforts do not go according to plan first of all, be geared up for rejection and disappointment. Life is a roller coaster and you have to get on it to enjoy and appreciate the journey and experience.